Keeping Christmas Simple & Special

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Life With Our Wild Ones

This time of the year can get so stressful for some, however we really try to keep things as simple and as special as possible for our family. Here a few things we do to try and keep this crazy time of the year simple, special & enjoyable.

Millie & Ollie are now at that age (Fantastic Four’s) where they really understand what Christmas is. Over the last couple of years we have started a few Christmas Traditions like going to a shop or local market to pick a Christmas Ornament for our Christmas Tree (some ornaments chosen this year were questionable)

My favourite tradition that we started three years ago is family Santa photos with my mother & father in-law. Unfortunately, my side of the family live in New Zealand, however its great being able to include Millie and Ollie’s Nana & Grandad in our yearly Santa photo. Every year after we do our Santa photo we go to the local night markets for dinner which is always fun.

elf on shelf

Another tradition we have going for the second year in a row is Elf on the Shelf (this used to be a big cringe factor for me). I was totally against this craze and promised myself I would not buy into it, and then my lovely Mother-in-Law kindly bought one for us – then the magic really began. When I first saw it, I wasn’t impressed, however I was then told how great it had been with our niece’s behaviour. At that time Millie and Ollie were driving me up and down the walls and I would literally try ANYTHING to help improve their behaviour. At that point I broke the promise to myself and out came ‘Mr Elvis Elf’. This little Elf drives me nuts however Millie & Ollie love him and it really does help with their behaviour and they are so excited to look for him every morning! I certainly have a new appreciation for the magic and imagination this little stuffed creature can bring to Christmas.


Kids Christmas Shopping

It is sooooooooo easy to go overboard buying Kid’s Christmas Presents! I personally am very cautious about what I’m buying them. I tend to follow the below guide:

  • Something they want
  • Something they need
  • Something to wear
  • Something to read
  • Something to experience

This keeps things simple and makes for less “stuff”. I also like to be cautious as to what I am buying as I like to make sure its something they can use for a while. On Boxing Day, before putting all their new Christmas gifts away Millie and Ollie will also go through their Toybox and find three toys each that they will donate to make room for their new Christmas gifts. I love this as it teaches them gratitude, kindness and provides insight into the world.

This year we are having Christmas with Rhys’ family. To keep it simple and save money we have all decided that we won’t buy presents for the adults and only buy for the kids. This year instead of buying presents for our nieces we have chosen to make them their Christmas Gifts to add a more personal touch. Millie and Ollie have been included in the making of these gifts so it has been a special way to spend time together as a family and making presents to gift which is also a wonderful lesson for them to learn.

Family Adventures

For this years little adventure getaway we’re spending three nights & seeing in the New Year camping with some friends. There is no phone service where we are camping, and I can’t wait. Camping is such a great way to spend time as a family and enjoy time out in Nature. Its also great for the kids (& adults) to take the time and just wind down from the Christmas Hype.

Finding “Me” Time

Every Christmas Rhys and I have 2 weeks off work and the kids have 2 weeks off Kindy. This year, Millie & Ollie will be going back to Kindy a little earlier so Rhys and I can have some child free time before we go back to work. We are incredibly lucky that my Mother-in-law has also offered to look after our Mini’s for one night when they are back at Kindy so we can have a night off. I originally felt a little guilty about sending Millie and Ollie back to Kindy early, however I think that it is important for Rhys and I to have some time away from them and also for them to have a break from us!

 

I hope amongst the Christmas Family Fun & Chaos you all manage to find some time to relax and unwind.

From my family to yours, Merry Christmas & a very Happy New Year

 

Chelsea x

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Teaching Children Positive Affirmations

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Let’s talk about teaching our children the beauty of Positive Affirmations! This was something my parents would do frequently with me as a child without even really realizing that they were doing it. It is also something that I felt very passionate about teaching my children from a young age so that they can grow up with confidence, kindness, and respect for not only themselves but for others around them.

Last year during lockdown we were reading a book on kindness and Millie looked over at me and said “Mummy I think that I am very kind because I gave Ollie my bunny when he was sad” I was so proud in that moment as it hit me that by chanting positive affirmations and reading books to them that reflect these positive affirmations, really does have a huge impact on them in the best possible way. Win!

We were out for our daily lockdown walk one day and were collecting some leaves and fallen flowers (Nature’s treasure as my littles would refer to them) for some arts and crafts activities later that afternoon. As we were strolling along Ollie went running up and climbed onto a large concrete step, which was quite high and a decent jump for him down to the ground. He looked over at me with the most determined little face shouting “I am Ollie and I am so brave” before jumping down to the ground. It gave me a great idea for their afternoon arts and crafts that we could make our own Affirmation Board for us to hang up on our wall.

When we got home, we made a start. We found an old cardboard box and cut it into an arched window shape. We cut a face hole out of the middle as I originally had the idea to stick it on to the mirror that they are constantly admiring themselves in so that they would remember to do their affirmations while looking at their beautiful little faces in the mirror.  

As we made our affirmation board we discussed what we wanted to write on our window under the words

“I AM”

I am Kind” shouted Millie

I am Brave” said Ollie ever so proudly

The following affirmations were also discussed and added to our window:

I am Happy

I am Lucky

I am Healthy

I am Funny

I am Loved

As we finished writing our affirmations on the window Millie asked if we could also add a rainbow and some of the flowers that we had collected earlier that day on our walk because they were also beautiful and happy like our affirmation board.

This truly was a wholesome afternoon with my children that cost nothing but time and love that I hope will continue to enrich my precious little humans in the years to come.

I hope you all stay safe and sane whereever you may be and remember to be kind to yourself. And remember:

You are strong

You are kind

You are brave

You are enough

Chelsea xx


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